Why do we like what we like sexually?

Bita von Seil
3 min readFeb 14, 2022

Contemplating discovering my kinky side

Photo by Cathy Mü on Unsplash

I should have studied sociology as I am so interested in humans and their cultures. Instead, I started with the classics, philosophy, languages, and politics. I ended up working in government service for several years. This was a very formative experience and highlighted for me my main life theme: freedom. Are we really free as humans in any way? Or are we…