PinnedBita von SeilDo you have a kinky fetish ?Or are you just getting fastidious in your old age?3 min read·Sep 12, 2022--1--1
Bita von SeilRope Jams of a Bygone EraWe entered the back courtyard of a century-old factory in a working-class northern Berlin neighborhood, its still unrenovated industrial…·7 min read·Jan 7, 2024----
Bita von SeilGrieving: A rope ritualIt’s possible to grieve for someone before they have died. Waves of anger, sadness, and disbelief washed over me out of the blue on a…·3 min read·Jul 31, 2022----
Bita von SeilWhy do we like what we like sexually?Contemplating discovering my kinky side·3 min read·Feb 14, 2022--2--2
Bita von SeilThe paradox of D/s and Non-Violent CommunicationSince refreshing my familiarity with Non-Violent Communication (NVC), I’ve identified what seems like a paradox in being dominant and…·2 min read·Jan 10, 2021--1--1
Bita von SeilPruning Time: To tie or not to tieWhy do we practice Shibari — even in a pandemic?·4 min read·Jul 22, 2020----